Narrated Amra (RA) :
I heard Aisha (RA) saying, "When the news of the martyrdom of Ibn Haritha, Jafar bin Abi Talib and Abdullah bin Rawaka reached, Allahs Apostle ﷺ sat with sorrow explicit on his face." Aisha (RA) added, "I was then peeping through a chink in the door. A man came to him and said, "O Allahs Apostle ﷺ ! The women of Jafar are crying. Thereupon the Prophet ﷺ told him to forbid them to do so. So the man went away and returned saying, "I forbade them but they did not listen to me." The Prophet ﷺ ordered him again to go (and forbid them). He went again and came saying, By Allah, they overpowered me (i.e. did not listen to me)." Aisha (RA) said that Allahs Apostle ﷺ said (to him), "Go and throw dust into their mouths." Aisha (RA) added, "I said, May Allah put your nose in the dust! By Allah, neither have you done what you have been ordered, nor have you relieved Allahs Apostle ﷺ from trouble."